What Do You
Actually Want?
It sounds easy. Then someone asks it for real and grown-ups go completely quiet. In this session you'll test whether the rooms you're in (school, teams, group chats) are unleashing you or quietly shrinking you, and how to tell the difference fast.
One hour. Three things
you'll actually keep.
The 5 questions
A quick test for any room: do they let the real you in, or just a shrunk-down version?
Notice → interrupt → pivot
The move for catching yourself editing in real time, before it becomes a habit.
Your real answer
A first, honest draft of what you actually want, not what looks good on a form.
Stop Suppressing,
Start Unleashing.
Book 4 of the series. Five questions to test whether a space is unleashing you or quietly shrinking you, for the version of you that never made it into the post.
- 1 Who do they let in?
- 2 How do they see you?
- 3 Who do they let you be?
- 4 What do they let you do?
- 5 How do they let you do it?
Who's running it
Glenn Llopis
Author of the six-book Teens UnEdited series, adapted from 20 years of leadership work with Fortune 500 companies, hospitals and universities. He wrote this one because it's the question he's watched too many adults freeze on, and he'd rather you never do.
No catch
One hour, online
Lurk if you want
Can't make it? You'll get it
Tue, Oct 27, 2026.
8 PM ET. You in?
Drop your email and we'll send the link plus a reminder. Free, 60 minutes, camera optional. Can't make it live? You'll get the replay.